Just tell her that you had done alot of soul searching and have decided that you would like to still work things out. However, you understand that it is not what she wants, so if she would like to proceed with the D, then she will need to get the process started on her own.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.