So once again, she sent me a text, to see if i would let her use the bathroom tonight while she was visiting the kids. I said yes. She then felt the need to let me know she went directly to the bathroom and directly out of the home. I didnt respond to her.
About an hour later, she sent me another text asking for more time with the older to boys. She gets more time with the younger two, but with the boys visitation with their dad, she sees them less.
I told her I got one weekend a month without children, and that I needed that time for me to go out and have a social life, and just quality time for myself.
She responded she understands, and she will try to come up with something mutual for both of us. I kept my reply to "let me know, and I would listen and think about it".
She tried to talk some more and I said i was busy and to enjoy her visit.
So, i am trying to be short and control the conversation as best as I can. One day at a time.
At least she didnt take them to her home tonight, they had a picnic in the park, and my youngest boy didnt even go. he went to his friends instead. I hope she relizes just what a mess she has created.
