So sorry about your niece. As far as your H goes, you are not his secretary. And tell him where to put his heads up. It is not your job to run interference between he and his children, nor to patch up the relationship that he destroyed.
ME: 54 Him: 51 M: 20 years T: 21 years OW/New wife: 36 Sons & Daughters: 7 (ages 24-36) Bomb: March 4, 2010 He Filed: April 28, 2010 I Contested: May 1, 2010 Standing Down: 11/24/10 Divorced : 05/04/2011