Thanks all for your advice. I agree with you on Friend addressing H. I've told friend that as well. But this is between them -

Today has been an AWFUL day. Kids and H had a horrible heated encounter this morning. Left the kids crying - they confronted dad about his lack of effort in their relationship - he got defensive. Later he texts me to "fyi" me about it and that in the future he wants a "heads us" when things are going wrong around the house. WTF!!

Then, to top it all off, our niece - age 27, passed away from cancer today. My SILs contacted me - H texted me later. This is AWFUL!!!!

He is so f'd up - it is unbelievable!


M-48/XH-48 M=25/T=28 years
Ds-24,22/S-18
D - 3/11
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