Thanks for the advice. My first reaction was to pack up and go home but he seems to be trying and he has cut off all contact with the OW. I know it seems crazy but I do want to stay with him.Besides this major thing and I know it is major, he treats me really well.
Please can I get some ideas, comments, advice from others out there.
The whole point of divorcebusting is to try resolve the problems and save the relationship and that is what I want to do but it has to be a healthy relationship in the end.