Sandi2- Sorry for the defensive posture, but I've read other threads where feedback can be aggressive when it's perceived the poster is backing down from a previous position they expressed they were going to take. I'll refrain from doing it in the future.

I agree the trips will be the big test and I agree that checking up on her while I'm supposed to GAL is not healthy for me.

eeyore_no_more - I read your threads and all I can say is what a difficult sitch to be in. In some respects I started down the same road as you but laid down my boundaries two weeks ago.

Puppy - She's not in contact with anyone by computer (keylogger verified) but I can' tell if there is phone contact.

Today is going be interesting. About two weeks ago she posted a missed encounter on Craigslist stating her availability to some guy at her our health club. I should add that all

Someone responded today, although it's not the same guy based on his message. If she responds in any way I'm going to have to enforce the boundary I set and pretty much ask her to leave. I'm going out for a while and I'll check later tonight to see how she handled it. I absolutely hate having to do this!


Me-43
W-41
S-3
M- almost 7
W ONS affair - 8/9/10, confronted 8/30/10
Separation - Pending
My sitch