Thanks for that advice gw. I will continue to keep a lookout for OW. No evidence so far. Mentally, I try to prepare myself for that possibility or of it happening soon.
Still no word from him since I mentioned stopping over to start getting the rest of my stuff. I think I may have hit a nerve. Don't know if that is good or bad. He seemed to be starting to get comfortable conversing with me again. A little worried that I may have reminded him he is divorcing me and to start getting paperwork in order...


(Formerly blgp)
Me-35
H-33
Married 4 yrs
Together 9 yrs
"Bomb" 8/1/10
Separated 8/6/10
D filed 10/21/10, on hold til 1/11

"If you want to hear God laugh, tell Him about your life plans."