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Hi bluestar. I was asking the questions I asked to get sunny's feedback at where she is at.

The line that stood out the most was when she said her H is most trying when she does patience. My post to her is to keep doing that then and find a way to channel her impatience.

I've also heard the book How to Work on Your Marriage Without Talking About It is good. I haven't read it so I can't comment. I know there are other ways to move a healing M along without having to sit down and do the 'talk''.

To me, work is included in both patience and boundary approaches.

Good advice bluestar.