Sad To Be Back 4 Years After The Bust

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I have a question you probably should think about.

Why did you walk right past robx's last post as well as coach's last post?

robx is giving you gold. I know it's not what you want to hear, it wasn't when I read his posts earlier on in my sitch. The tendency is to reject it.

She's keeping you at a certain distance. You're the cushion. The backup. You see crumbs and baby steps, I see you moving away and her succesfully pulling you back to the distance she wants you at.

Did you ever decline any offer of a get together with her? Ever say no? Ever think of just letting the phone ring to voicemail when she calls? A person can't chase something that's not moving away.

If she knew I have a date with a 25 year old this weekend she might not be calling......

This one sentence tells me where you're at.

Go study, and I mean study what robx wrote in his last post. Then post what you see on your thread here.