Wife states she is not in love with me anymore!

[HopelessInLove]

Well she has allowed me to do things around the house and has said thank you for helping her. She beforre would get angry and take the stuff out of my hands as I would be working and tell me not to worry about it.
She feels like I am keeping track of everything I do so that at some point I throw it back in her face, or worse (her words) use it against her that she is not a capable mom.