Here's the best part of all... It will end with some type of conclusion and life WILL go on.

The big question is... When does the pain end and the healing begin?

The answer... It's totally and 100% up to you John. It will end when YOU end it. That does not mean that you will not have pain. It simply means that the pain will be part of the healing process.

Look at it this way, A 3rd degree burn hurts more and more days after the initial injury. That's because it's healing. Right now that flame is still on you continually burning your skin. Remove the flame and the healing begins. It will still hurt, but less and less every day.


M: 42 - W: 41 - M: 18 - T: 23 - D:16 S:14
EA - July 2010
NC w/EA - Nov 2010
Piecing - Jan 2011
I ask for div - Jan 2012
Div papers filed - Mar 2012
I move out - July 2012
Divorce final - Nov 7, 2012