Stitching together a new quilt

[FindingMyVoice]

Ok Findng...Now I need your opinion.....My W also has LD..I do now know (and am NOT asking how old you are) My W is 56.

And I'm happy to give it, Doc - you've been so helpful to me I'd love to return the favour. And I never mind people asking me my age - I'm 42.

Actualy this could be for any woman out there.. DOES THE DESIRE COME BACK?????

YES YES and more YES

Everything is great.. well she has not said I love you for a while but still we are not really living as roommates anymore but the Desire is not there so much for her... as for me I am HD... Don't know if I am starting to go through my own MLC but I find myself checking out women more and more and getting thoughts that I should not be having..

What was it like before the A Doc? Was she always LD?

and the other thing that pops up sometimes is " Did he do something (or did the affair) trigger somthing to make my wife now think sex is dirty?

And, sorry to answer a question with a question, but I'm curious - your question makes me concerned for your W - How do you come to wondering this Doc? Are there other things going on in her behavior that would make you consider this?