Schnarch's new book says there is always a LDP in a relationship. And that LD is subjective and relative. (Dr Love you could very well be LD for me, LOL!!) And he believes sexual "issues" are not signs of an bad relationship. The way I understand it are signs of a R that needs to grow, move from one stage to the other. All relationships lose the spark of the first months, can desire come back? He thinks "definetely". Still reading and trying to understand how so unless you buy it, you'll have to wait to hear what he thinks...
