On two ends of the world.. #2

[MichelleLT]

Sorry you are here ris. Yours has to be one of the toughest situations on here since your R has barely made it out of the gate and you're separated by so much distance. Plus his depression, possible PTSD, etc.

Your response was a bit emotional, but nothing too clingy in there.

What would you gain by asking him his reasons/suspicions? He either wouldn't answer you, give you a bunch of BS, or might tell you the truth. 2 of the 3 options don't work remotely in your favor. And it's pursuing behavior which is unattractive and insecure.

I also agree that cutting back contact is good at this time. It'll be good for your mental health, and give him time to miss you.

I didn't find anything in your threads about whether you've actually read DB or DR? I see that you've been browsing the forums, but that's not nearly the same as reading one/both of Michele's books.