Wife states she is not in love with me anymore!

[HopelessInLove]

Yes, I know a EA developed.
I have done investigating and she has not contacted him through her normal ways. She is so busy, I am fairly certain she has not engaged in contact with him.
I am confused now though with more recent things. She seems to be pushing me in one direction and then acting level with me. Is that because she is getting confused? How do I handle.
My coach does not think that implementing the LRT will help right now.