Originally Posted By: ericmsant2
IB

I would really caution the friends when they speak to H. I suspect that he will not appreciate the conversations. They may do more harm than good.

What makes the friends think that they can talk him into comming back. What they are telling H is that he is WRONG and right now he does not want to hear that.

Question for you....

If you H came back because his friends convinced him..would you take him back?

If so, then why?

Would you want H back because he decided to come back on his own or because he felt obligated via pressure?

If because of pressure...why?

What doe these answers tell YOU?

You do not have to answer me...just yourself.

God Bless,
Eric



I agree.

Rarely does stuff like this do any good. Pressure and guilt aren't going to bring him home.

He has to admit that there is an issue and fix himself and until he is ready, no one can tell him any different.

That is a really good question too. Do you really want him back if he is not ready?



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