Jennifer...I dont give advice much, but from my own experience I dont think I would ask him to come home right now. He clearly isnt ready. I know i made a mistake in letting my H come home before he had his issues straightened out. Give it more time.

Kissak

"What time I am afraid, I will trust in thee." Psalms 56:3
M-37 H-37
S-10, D-15
M- 1993
First bomb- 12/23/06
Came and went too MANY times!
Gone again 10-25-10