FMV,
He's avoiding having sex with you? He doesn't respond even when you initiate things? It sounds like your initiating things doesn't resolve the problem either? Does he reveal why he pulls away when you initiate physical intimacy? That's a problem. I used to do that with my W, and it sure created problems in the R. I will never do that again.

This is a serious problem that needs addressed in some form. If he won't help you to solve the problem, you will have to resort to other options to break the avoidance pattern around communication on this issue or of physical contact.

CL

CL 53 W 54
M 20 yrs.
03'-09' Separation + Old Patterns + GAL
10-14' Piecing

"The Master allows things to happen. She shapes events as they come."

----Tao Te Ching