I felt disconnected. Unnoticed. Taken for granted? But I was taking him for granted too....obviously.
Oh SOA, I do feel for you. That's a very lonely place to be. Those are the feelings I had too, when I first came to this board. Did you ever share those feelings with your H?
We never had a real conversation about it. I was always afraid of hurting his feelings and driving him away. I did occasionally ask, "why don't we ever have sex?" But I didn't push it.
