FMV, How is the communication between you and your H on sexual matters?
Hi CL. It's not great. We've talked about it on our holidays, acknowledged how hard a time we have talking about it, and both would like more of it. But... he won't initiate anything, he won't even hug me or touch me in a sexual or intimate way... it's more like a good friend. Even when he does finally give me a compliment it's things like I look 'snazzy' or 'really good'. And if I try to initiate intimacy, he most often replies in a baby voice, or will playfully push me my hand away and move away from me. I just don't know what to do anymore CL. I'm so afraid of these feelings I keep having for this other man. I'm sorry I'm babbling.
I cannot complain for not receiving from others, that which I've never asked them for.
It's not great. We've talked about it on our holidays, acknowledged how hard a time we have talking about it, and both would like more of it. But... he won't 
