I know I know - it's an oxymoron at best here - I'm not sure what I'm doing really - I know I want a life out of this house and situation, I am detaching and interacting with other women is one way that I can. I'm there to make sure I'm alive and kicking, not looking for anything serious, but I have to get out and live as I had before!

It's also the fact that I'm not willing to leave MY home, the W has the whole codependency thing going and is looking to that as her detachment vehicle which is great, I'm just trying to get her into the fast lane with getting out. I've given her the let me help you pack speech but she's not budging - so I'm looking to start getting out in the evenings with other people - with whom is not her concern and I don't plan on publicizing it either.

Maybe I'm as wacked as she is!

DD

Me 49
H 46
M 23yrs
T 25 yrs
Bomb Drop 4/2010
S22/D19/D15/S13

Same roof, different beds

"Honestly I can say this trip into my own private hell is a journey that I know now I had to take."