Thanks Cyrena, I've been working on her talking to him, she just says that Daddy isn't Daddy anymore. And she can't talk to him the way she can talk to me.
As far as H in her C. He wouldn't go. He did attend in the beginning or our separation but only a few times. I don't think he liked being told by D13's C that he needed to do this and that and didn't like the fact that she gave it to him straight as far as what he was doing wrong.
I guess the letter thing would be the best thing for her to do but I know him and he will think I put her up to it. I think I still get the blame for everything.
I'm just so confused......if he wasn't happy with me and the kids and blames me for everything then why did he just go on the 10th to the Dr.'s to be put back on his AD's that he stopped taking 3 1/2 weeks before he left. D13 said he isn't happy at all, so I know it wasn't all me.
Maybe I will talk to D13 and see what she would like to do. Sometimes she gets so mad also and just might say the heck with him. I hope not, because they always were so close.
