Not sure where to start or end, WAW - #2

[john28]

Have you seen a L yet, John?

Yes, but the first guy I saw was one of those "let's just settle this as easy as possible so I don't have to do any work" type of L. He advised me just to work with W as much as possible and that clearly isn't happening because I keep getting manipulated.

Got a consult with different L this week.

This too will be used to manipulate you. Keep feeling instead of thinking. What stops her from running debt up in both of your names?

I have bank and CC statements the day she moved out. Was advised to do so by L in case she racks up debt.

Don't make the mistake of going from being a push-over to being inflexible and hostile

Yeah, exactly. I have a difficult time being dark without being hostile and inflexible. It's just in my nature to be on or off. I can't find that good in between ground. Like when you go dark, and the WAS calls you and you're supposed to act chipper or GAL.... I can't really do that well. When I go dark, I go into "off" mode and am not necessarily hostile, but I'm definitely indifferent and inflexible. I'm working on that.