CTH, where are you guys in the D process? Sorry if this was covered recently? I ask because I see you detach well for a while but then you start to reminisce about STBXW and then get angry- which is all very normal and understandable btw but I get the feeling you need some event to happen to bring you some closure and catapult you out of this. I'm not all that different myself but I choose to focus on myself now and dread the D day from the financial pov. Once I'm over that hump I'll be alright.
You know sometimes I wonder what we'll all talk or think about when this is all over. So much of our time and life is consumed by this mess I'd probably miss not having something to worry about lol
Great you're focusing on the kids and yourself...that's all that matters from now on.
Me: 35|WAW: 38|D: 6yo | http://tinyurl.com/2dxx7m6 Feb 2006, left, came back in two weeks Aug 2006, left again Apr 2007, filed for divorce Dec 2007, reunited Mar 2010, moved out, filed again