Antlers, you're that rock for having survived what you have - especially you because of how angry and vengeful your XW has acted. So believe that and be proud.

Reminds me of Bob Seger's "Like A Rock":

Like a rock
Standin’ arrow straight
like a rock
chargin’ from the gate
like a rock
carryin’ the weight
like a rock

oh like a rock
the sun upon my skin
like a rock
hard against the wind
like a rock
I see myself again
like a rock
oh like a rock


Me: 35|WAW: 38|D: 6yo | http://tinyurl.com/2dxx7m6
Feb 2006, left, came back in two weeks
Aug 2006, left again
Apr 2007, filed for divorce
Dec 2007, reunited
Mar 2010, moved out, filed again