Antlers, you're that rock for having survived what you have - especially you because of how angry and vengeful your XW has acted. So believe that and be proud.
Reminds me of Bob Seger's "Like A Rock":
Like a rock Standin’ arrow straight like a rock chargin’ from the gate like a rock carryin’ the weight like a rock
oh like a rock the sun upon my skin like a rock hard against the wind like a rock I see myself again like a rock oh like a rock
Me: 35|WAW: 38|D: 6yo | http://tinyurl.com/2dxx7m6 Feb 2006, left, came back in two weeks Aug 2006, left again Apr 2007, filed for divorce Dec 2007, reunited Mar 2010, moved out, filed again