Sol, sorry to hear about all the latest development. Personally, I'm of the mindset that nothing good will come out of knowing more so in this particular case the less I know the better and easier it'll be for me to move on.

As for the girl, it's irrelevant *who* she is? If she is her or someone else from your perspective it changes nothing. It'll only torture you in the future. Don't do that to yourself.

If deleting his number helps you limit your communication with him then I'm glad you did it.

Remember, you deserve better, just like what I wrote to Brena yesterday.


Me: 35|WAW: 38|D: 6yo | http://tinyurl.com/2dxx7m6
Feb 2006, left, came back in two weeks
Aug 2006, left again
Apr 2007, filed for divorce
Dec 2007, reunited
Mar 2010, moved out, filed again