It wasn't an appropriate time to have that conversation because
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She came up behind me and gave me a nice hug
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She asked to stay for dinner last night, and I said that would be fine
She will use this against you. She knows you don't have a backbone.
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I am still going dark
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I'm still going forward with the "don't call me" decision/speech. I know that is the right decision for me and for this R.
But yet........
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It felt inappropriate to do so last night.
Your wife will play your feelings like a fiddle. She knows you are afraid of her and your feelings.
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I think right now we have about $400 to our name. Her CC is maxed out too. Things might get interesting.
This too will be used to manipulate you. Keep feeling instead of thinking. What stops her from running debt up in both of your names?
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
