Lin is right. My H after 11 months of separation and not paying a penny on anything that was in both of our names got mad because he finally paid a full payment on a loan, and expected me to me so grateful it wasn't even funny. And he makes 3 times the amount I do, and I can't make ends meet.
When he didn't get a reaction from me that he wanted he claimed that it takes a lot to make me happy (which it doesn't). So now he pays 1/3 of a consolidation loan we have and nothing more than that, he did tell D13 4 weeks ago that he was going to give her 1/2 of her soccer money to give to me and help us with groceries, 3 days later nothing. Told her that he would have to wait until the following week because he was broke. Well, here we are and still hasn't paid anything and hasn't contacted D13 in over a week and a 1/2.
She was upset last night and I have no clue what to do. If I should text him and let him know that she is upset and was claiming he loves his 2 boys that he had in high school more than he loves her. I'm totally lost on what to do. I feel so bad for her because he was calling her every day and even called her school last Wednesday and wanted her progress reports and stuff and now nothing.
Lin or anyone do you have any advice on what I should do as far as our D13? Should I text H knowing that he will not respond or do I just let it go.
