such a damn shame - the only thing you can do is work on yourself - it's all you have right now.
be strong and remember this is about YOU not her.
I've been trying. This started off as "I need space", turning into the "Something inside me has changed" and now is the "We didn't get along well enough, I want to start over, you'll find someone else someday"
We got along great, we had a wonderful vacation prior to her leaving, we had all sorts of plans with the kids.
She changed so fast, not caring about what this seperation is doing to everyone else. I guess throughout the whole time, I was convinced she would eventually remember what a family was. The thought of someone else with my kids kills me. I have no desire to be with anyone else besides my wife....I took our vows seriously.
M-38 W-37 T-16,M-11 (Oct 30,1999) S-5 S-2 Wife left 7/4/2010
"When life hands you a lemon, say, 'Oh yeah, I like lemons! What else ya got?" — Henry Rollins
