Actually, based on what you have written here, I think you did fine this time. I guess it's kind of natural to second guess just getting along, but we have always said, "You don't have to be an @ss about it, but don't tollerate disrespect". I didn't see any disrespect in this post, so good job.
Don't make the mistake of going from being a push-over to being inflexible and hostile
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