I know, part of the brutal reality. Turn it around - use the dogs to spark a new arrangment/discussion about what your plan is with them? Who's going to keep when you are gone? Let her try on the BGPs.
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
