A new beginning to an end

[antlers]

well it goes without saying that when you've spent that long with someone and found out all these things after the fact, it does hurt.

Yeah, I know it hurts. Fact is, if someone other than your once significant other did these things to you, and disrespected you, and cheated and lied to you...you wouldn't put up with it for a second. You'd drop em' like a hot rock. You wouldn't take it personally...they did what they did, and it had NOTHING to do with you. It's the same regardless of who the transgressor is. Just food for thought.

That said...I know how hard it is, and how much it hurts.