You see, I don't get this. You're sorry to worry her? She left, right? She wasn't too worried when she left, and when you don't hear from her for weeks, is she sorry to worry you?
I don't get why you would say that. It's not your job to rescue her from her feelings. If she can't get ahold of you because you are living your life without her because she left you, then what is there to be sorry about?
Time,
It is apparant that you do not "get" Grit or some of the others that post on this board.
Grit, was being Grit. True to himself. At the end of the day, regardless of what his W has or has not done, this is who HE wants to be.
Someone who takes other people's feelings into consideration.
Someone who does his best to let go of grudges.
Someone who wants that door to be open for his W should she choose to knock.
I am not so sure why you don't see that. Or how you could possibly think that being an asshat to her would be better for Grit.
That being said, maybe it is time for you to let this go.
Hey Grit!
Oh and you too Trapt (if you are around)
"Acceptance doesn't mean resignation. It means understanding that something is what it is and there's got to be a way through it."--Michael J. Fox
