You have to start out being honest. It's a long post that begins with the proposition about sleeping with a former lover as a means of deciding if you have feelings for them so that you know if you are ready to commit to a new lover.
That is either the poster not being honest with themself, or they need to look into what is "love" and what is "commitment".
It is not cruel. It is blunt and true.
I'd start there: be honest with myself or re-examine these concepts.
M-47,W-40,No kids D-filed 5/27/2010 Piecing - 10/21/2010 -=Soon to be banned=-
