Had my S last night and we slept over my brother's house. I took him to my house around 8:30 to put him on the bus. As I was driving over to the house I was hoping my W would either be in the house or already on her way to work. She puts my D on the bus at 8:20 so I was hopeful she wouldn't be outside.
When I got near the house I saw her outside talking to our neighbor. Instead of pulling into the driveway I made a left turn and parked on the corner of the street where my S's bus picks him up. It's actually directly across the street from the house.
My S jumped out and said hello to my W across the street. I stayed in the car and his bus came within a few minutes. I jumped out and put him on the bus. When the bus pulled away I thought, "How am I going to say hello to my neighbor and leave my W out of it?" "Is that going to make me look like an ass?" "Ok, stop thinking and do what YOU want to do."
Said hi to my neighbor and walked toward my car. My W said, "He just jumps right on the bus." I said, "Yeah, we need him to teach our D to do that." She cries every morning getting on the bus.
I didn't even look at her. Just got in my car and drove away.
I don't want to interact with her. I don't want to see her. I don't want to talk to her. I definitely don't want to be in a position where she can take some interaction between us and spin it around to make it look like I did something 'wrong'.
I don't care what it makes me look like to basically ignore/avoid her. It's what I have to do to protect myself after her continuous fabricating and lying.
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