Let me clarify something, when your own family calls and don't hear from you for a couple of days, do they start in with the "We were worried.,.." stuff?
I ask because I'd have to be AWOL for a couple of weeks unexpectedly before I heard something like that from my own mother who I talk to several times a week.
Apples and oranges.
Different people, different family members and different situations.
Time, perhaps you have done the right thing for you. It's doesn't mean it will be the right thing for others. Who are any of us to say?
There seems to be a strong need for you to be "right." It's plain to see that your opinion, while respected, is not wanted here. Why keep pushing?
How come you are having trouble letting go and moving on?
