It's been a long journey to get where I am today. A lot has improved and I have kept a positive attitude for better things to come.
I don't like the feeling of enforcing my boundaries last night. Although it did not cause a conflict or even an argument of any sort, I feel dissapointed of her that I even had to do that.
But I need to stick to my script. I complimented her when she behaved well and I have to let her know when she is trying to eat the cake again and how that is no longer acceptable.
I think deep inside she knows what's right and what's wrong. Four months ago she would not simply told me to f-off and leave if I did not like something.