I know its hard but don't go there! I just recently did the same thing and it only dredges up old feelings of hurt, anger and disrespect,,,it hurts so very badly when you're being lied to, I just found out my stbxh is sleeping with numerous women and probably has been this whole time we've been M'd. Butwe just have to remind ourselves that we are smarter and above all that!!
My D will be over on Oct 20th and 21st, we will get thru all this pain we just need to make ourselves busy by focusing on our families rather than ask 'Why' or follow them down that cheeseless tunnel.
I hope you find some solace and peace today as i'm searching for it as well,,,i'm up way too late for my own good!LOL!
Take Care, Kim
M44H44 M18 T22 Sep7yrs-3/10 S23,22,15,11 10/07I file 2/08D postponed by H 2/09D on 3/09H moves in 8/09I kick H out 9/09H-PA 10/09-2/10mediate 3/10OW discoved 5/10H&OW engaged 7/10DDay w/atty
