Change is in the air........

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once he processes all that you've told him he still may come to her defense, but if he doesn't, well jeez, he may just not be that into her

Seeking, FUNNY! I laughed out loud!

You've given XH a lot to think about. Prepare yourself for the possibility that he may retreat for a while to process.

Thanks for the reminder. I DO need to brace myself for this.

Sounds like your XH may be awakening and hopefully realizes that the best one for him has been there all along.

XH DID say that he and I have had some really good times together, so at least he is allowing himself to remember those times now.
"But (he said) living together was difficult". After I got home I kept thinking that I wanted to ask him "What part of this difficulty do you think that you contributed to?"............Arghhhhhhhh! He is a SLOW learner! Still not taking any responsibility for his part of that.

After XH's first D he dated a woman who by all accounts was/is a bit nutty. When we were together, if he saw her in public, he would race in the other direction to avoid her..........so he has experience with bunny boilers in the past. I think my story about the package made an impression on him. Don't think he wants another bunny boiler in his life,....although it sounds like he may have one.

GAG