I again want to thank everyone for their input. My daughter was very upset yesterday and she told me that she misses me and the fact that we are not a family unit. She told me that things were not working out with a boy she likes. She said the boy was her best friend. I said to her that I knew how she felt. I told her that her mother was my best friend for 30 years. She was shocked that I said that. She told me she did not think my wife was happy. I told Katie that her mom needs time to think. I told her that her mom moved out and could always come back but we would need the help of a therapist.My wife left a voice message yesterday asking me to pick up our daughter because she had an exam. My wife needs to give me more lead time when things change. In any case, I will continue to stay close to my daughter and let her know I love her and the family very much. Bobby O
