trying to be patient

[gutwrenching]

I'm going to try to be patient and expect nothing

You wrote this on 8/31 and then some people who have a lot of similarities said this is going to take a long time, be patient.

Listen to them. 3 weeks is not a long time. You sitich is complicated, from what I read, I do not believe your W is truly piecing. Almost sounds like she is checking a square to say see I tried, I came back, nothing changed when in fact she may still be in or wishing she was still in an EA. I don't know. You'll get better help over in newcomers.