CW,
Excellent post my friend.

Mila,
I should have clarified what I meant by sacrifices that would be hard to recover from. I was referring to debt. For myself, at my age, I think about that a lot. Retirement is not too far away but H's MLC put it out a whole lot farther. I'll have to do some adjusting but have made sure I'm not responsible for any debt H has incurred while in la la land.

I know the circumstances are a whole lot different for you being in business with your H.

One thing I'm sure of and that's that you're a strong woman and will do what's best for you and D.

(((Hugs)))