Blindsided

[evolve35]

I hope I am doing the right thing...
I thanked him via e-mail for the info, hoped his projects were coming along well for him and wished him good luck (casual neighbor sort of way). He wrote back details of what he has finished and not etc. He also told me he would bring the air mattress for me in his car tomorrow so he can give it to me at work (asked him to borrow it since I have family coming to visit next week). Wrote back, told him good job on his accomplishments and that he didn't need to bring the mattress. That instead, since I don't need it until next week, I would pick it up myself as I need to start getting the rest of my stuff from the house... dead silence since then... no more e-mails from him tonight.

I think he has felt very neglected for a long time. I am worried about using the LRT on him.

I gotta tell you all, after thinking about it all day... I really don't feel there is OW. Obviously I can't be sure, will continue to look for evidence. But, if I am honest and not just trying to think maybe you all know him better than me (as I contemplate his possible alien abduction) it would be incredibly out of his character... giving up on our marriage is less out of character as he thought about it/spoke of it in Feb, just didn't realize how serious he was...