Took me 3 months to get to this point, but here I am. I have poured over these boards, just ordered the books this week and will sign up with a coach for my 1st meeting next week.
I am buying time, seperated for the last 3 months. She has stated she wants to start over with someone else,she has changed, and really is indifferent to me and has been. She comes from a family where everyone, I mean everyone has been divorced.
I don't want a divorce, I have no plans to file, she hasn't filed either. When is a situation hopeless? I don't want to give up. Not sure what to do.
Up until this point, there are no affairs, at least that I was aware of, certainly wasn't one by me. I am not naive, I realize she probably left me for the chance to see someone in particular.
Seems hopeless, but I don't want to give up and keep trying.
Last edited by Lostinlife; 09/23/1005:19 AM.
M-38 W-37 T-16,M-11 (Oct 30,1999) S-5 S-2 Wife left 7/4/2010
"When life hands you a lemon, say, 'Oh yeah, I like lemons! What else ya got?" — Henry Rollins
