Went to the W's house at 6, she opened the door and said " this is unexpected" I said Dinner? remember? she said thats tomorrow night, I said no I leave tomorrow morning. She had the most confused look on her face. She then said I just made lasagna come in. So I ate, its was good, spent a the rest of the time with the kids. W and I didnt interact much, she asked me to look at her dishwasher, which i did told her whats wrong with it and to call her landlord. I walked the kids to the park and pushed them on the swings.
Took them back to W's house, said I have to go pack, told the W I will call the kids periodically from CA, she asked when I get back, told her midnight on Sunday, she actually asked if it was midnight Texas time? what the f*cks the difference? LOL!!! but i just said yes.
36 hours ago she was asking me to come over for dinner, 24 hours ago she was texting me about what to make and that I better not flake. As I have posted many times, her memory lately is terrrible. I was upbeat with the kids, looked good, and while I was there a few of her female neighbors stopped by, and I have to say were "checking me out" I can only imagine what the W has told them about me, I am sure its been all good things! Yes I still make myself laugh. I did kind of feel like a moron, but she is the one who cant remember what day it is, so I took the time to see the kids. She seemed very blah, not happy not sad just really no life in her eyes. But I am going to enjoy my trip. I will bring my laptop to journal.
She's probably stressed out. Stress is a killer for memory. Hell, the last three months have been such a blur, it's hard for me to pin an event to an actual date.
Ego driven crap is bad for mindfullness in general.
Always worrying about the future and past? Where the heck are your car keys?
Brain tumors and alzheimers are bad for that too. Ask her to draw an old analog clock with hands and numbers on the face (test for senility--smile--and brain dysfunction. People with severe problems can't draw them correctly--numbers out of sequence, all bunched together, etc).
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M-47,W-40,No kids D-filed 5/27/2010 Piecing - 10/21/2010 -=Soon to be banned=-
gotcha, im a lil south of u then. gonna be nice to hit up some in n out, huh? I love their shakes too, man. Have you noticed the hidden references to bible passages in their wrappers, cups, etc.?
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Ya I have read a lot about the family that started the business. They have dealt with fortune and tragedy. But they are not a family to follow the typical sellout lifeline. They have built a great business on hard work and faith, I not only enjoy the food, who wouldnt, but the way the business is run is impressive. I almost went to work for long Beach PD when I was younger. I have been asked to do a lateral transfer TX law and CA law are very similar.
That's real interesting about the family that founded them. I will check it out (google). So you might be moving back to Cali? How will that impact M/DB sitch? What's timing, etc.?
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No not moving back to Cali, I miss things about it, but I have too much here in TX, kids and biz need to stay here. I could get a LE job in CA, but I cant leave my kids. I have a lot of contacts in CA passed LSG resume on to some of them since he was looking for work. My mom is still in the hollywood connection she used to write for Sheen and Pacino, and a bit of writing for Bill Cosby, she is retired and my parents are on their ranch in Montana, but she still consults and does ghost writing.
