On two ends of the world.. #2

[TimeHeals]

I just wish we could put it all on the table and openly say what the issues are, without stupid games.

Unfortunately, you weren't given that choice, were you?

He sent you a brief, "I want a divorce". Not a "I want a divorce because of the following reasons [small phone book length document follows]". Then followed up with cryptic responses and typical blame shifting.

So what are your choices?

You can ask him for an explanation (which he already could have provided), you can agree with him for different reasons obviously, or you can argue with him.

He owes you the explanation if anybody owes anybody an explanation... even if it's BS. You aren't asking for the divorce.

Not even a ILYBINILWY? Not a "It's no you, it's me?".