You can do whatever you want to do. You are a grown woman who gets to make her own choices.
I just don't understand why you want to play this game with him.
Seriously, I don't. HE asked for the divorce. HE has the explaining to do, not you. He needs to kiss some serious butt to make up for this or get what he asked for, IMO.
If he has issues now and is willing to quit on you when you aren't even living together, how messed up is he going to be if he doesn't work on his issues and is living under the same roof?
So... you can ask whatever you want. YOU don't owe him any explanations, do you? Have you done anything wrong?
M-47,W-40,No kids D-filed 5/27/2010 Piecing - 10/21/2010 -=Soon to be banned=-