JBK, he's military, so stationed in NY. When he deployed last summer I moved back to our hometown in TN. His legal state of residence is Arkansas, that's where his driver's license is issued, although he hasn't lived there in years. I have to counterfile here in TN because technically AR doesn't have jurisdiction over the case at all. It's complicated and stupid, honestly.
Hope, I definitely believe fear is a big part, but as for backlash, he's already introduced her to his family and our kids, without telling me. Of course no one ever said anything to me either, I think because they don't agree with it but don't want to not support him either. I wish I had more understanding, but I guess that's the last thing I can get from him right now.
Me: 24 H: 26 2 SS: 7 & 5; D: 3 H filed D papers: 8/2/10 OW discovered: 08/10 D papers counter-filed: 10/2/10 There is no method to my madness
