Thanks Freema for the women's perspective. Much appreciated. I went out on a limb and asked if she wanted to do dinner next week and she said yes. I'm going to be happy happy as you said and have no talk about us. She'll be moving back home with her parents in the mean time after that and then I'll pull back and give her some space hopefully with a positive memory of us just being friendly together. Won't pursue after that and will mirror her and take her lead and be understanding and supportive yet firm. We'll see what happens...