So.....after making a few purchases tonight, H got all over my case about spending. In a very calm manner, the conversation went into where our R is and to make a long story short, decided to get a D. I was very up front about it not being what I wanted, but in the end, that's where the conversation took us.
It was all very surreal. While all of the details seem a bit fuzzy to me now, I know that I really kept my composure, and was respectful and had great DBing behavior. All the while, he went on and on about providing for me until I can get back on my feet on my own.
When I brought up pursuing legal counsel he said he wanted to try legalzoom.com first to save money (just goes to show how totally freaked out about $$ he really is). Regardless, I know that I am going to have a lawyer in my court just to be safe with the house/no job/cars/CHILD!
We decided to talk about things further this weekend.
I suppose I'm still in shock...a bit relieved...a bit sad. I've made quick calls to my parents to inform them...now I'm just sitting here...processing...don't have much feeling...for now.
